Where to Buy Lingerie in Northern Virginia (That’ll Make You Feel Like That Girl)

Shopping for lingerie can feel like entering a Hunger Games arena. You dodge harsh lighting, racks of confusing sizes, and overly pushy salespeople just to find one bra that doesn't make you question your life choices.

But babe—your body deserves better. You deserve better. So if you’re starting your boudoir journey or just trying to remember what it feels like to feel good in your own damn skin, this is your permission slip to go get something that makes you feel powerful, comfortable, and hot as hell.

As a Northern Virginia boudoir photographer, I’ve worked with women who thought lingerie “wasn’t for them.” (Spoiler: it is.) These are the go-to lingerie shops I recommend to my clients when they’re ready to start seeing themselves differently—before they even step in front of my camera

Trousseau – For the Woman Who’s Done Settling for “Close Enough”

306 Maple Ave W, Vienna, VA 22180

Trousseau is the lingerie equivalent of a glass of wine and a hype squad. They stock over 160 bra sizes. Yes, you read that right. Not "small, medium, large," but actual sizes that fit actual bodies. The staff? Dream team. They're not there to judge, just to help you find something that fits you. Their entire approach screams, “Let’s celebrate your body, not fix it.” Whether you want lacy and luxurious or soft and snuggly, they’ve got options that make you feel like the main character. Plus—free alterations. Cue slow clap.

Lotus Blooms – For the One Who Wants Pleasure and Power

1017 King Street, Alexandria, VA 22314

Lotus Blooms is a sex-positive, queer-owned gem that mixes education, empowerment, and damn good lingerie. This isn’t just a boutique—it’s a space where women, femmes, and non-binary babes can ask questions, explore, and find things that actually feel good.

Their lingerie selection includes luxe brands like Thistle & Spire and Kilo Brava (hello, velvet and mesh dreams). Their staff includes certified sex educators, so you can actually talk to someone who knows what’s up, not just someone trying to upsell you another basic bra.

Whether you’re shopping in-store or doing a discreet online order for curbside pickup, you’ll leave feeling more informed, more confident, and definitely more turned on by your own reflection.

Intimissimi – For When You Want to Turn the Heat All the Way Up

1961 Chain Bridge Road, Tysons, VA 22102

If you’re craving European-level drama with your lingerie, Intimissimi is calling your name. Their designs are sleek, strappy, and unapologetically sexy—but still comfy enough that you won’t rip it off after 10 minutes. (Because honestly, who has time for scratchy lace?)

They’re known for bodysuits, garter belts, and romantic little sets that feel high-end but don’t require a second mortgage. Think: date-night energy meets walk-of-shame confidence (in the best way).

They cater to a range of body types and are one of my go-tos when clients want to feel a little bolder. Bonus: their sizing isn’t a guessing game, and you can try on pieces without crying in a dressing room. Win-win.

Soma – For the Everyday Babe Who Wants to Feel Like a Damn Queen

8021 L Tysons Corner Center, McLean, VA 22102

Soma is that reliable, always-there-for-you friend who just gets it. You need a supportive bra? She’s got you. You want a bodysuit that hugs in the right places without suffocating you? Done.

Their styles lean toward sleek and elegant, but they’re never boring. From slinky chemises to lace-trimmed robes and practical-but-cute bralettes, you’ll find pieces that make you feel confident whether you’re folding laundry or flirting with yourself in the mirror.

Soma is especially great if you’re easing into lingerie and want something that feels sexy without screaming it. It's low-key confidence you can wear any day of the week.

How to Pick the Best Lingerie for Your Boudoir Session

I know lingerie shopping can be overwhelming, so let’s break it down.

1. Fit is EVERYTHING

There’s nothing worse than an ill-fitting bra or a bodysuit that rides up in all the wrong ways. That’s why I always recommend going somewhere like Le Bustiere Boutique where they offer professional fittings. Get that perfect fit and watch how much more confident you feel.

2. Pick a Color That Makes You Feel Powerful

Listen, classic black is always a vibe, but don’t be afraid to experiment. I personally believe that jewel tones are flattering on every skin tone. Think ruby red, emerald green, sapphire blue. Want something soft and romantic? Blush pink or white lace is the move. Choose what makes you feel like that girl.

3. Match Your Boudoir Vibe

Are we going for sultry and dramatic? Soft and dreamy? Playful and fun? Your lingerie should match the energy you want to bring into your boudoir session. I’ll help guide you on the day, but choosing outfits that make you feel unstoppable is key.

FAQs About Lingerie Shopping for Boudoir Sessions

Q: What’s the best lingerie style for my body type?
A: Girl, every body is a boudoir body! It’s all about what makes you feel good. Want to highlight your curves? A corset or high-waisted set is great. Prefer something flowy? A sheer robe or babydoll is stunning.

Q: Where can I find plus-size lingerie in Virginia?
A: Savage x Fenty has an amazing size-inclusive selection! Don’t sleep on this online store —they have gorgeous, curve-hugging pieces that will make you feel amazing. But if you want to try it on first, pop over to the store in Pentagon Mall or at Nordstroms in Tysons Corner!

Q: How many outfits should I bring for my boudoir session?
A: I recommend 2-3 outfits so you can have variety. Bring a showstopper piece, something soft and romantic, and maybe a wild card outfit just for fun. (Trust me, you won’t regret it!)

Let’s Show Off Your New Lingerie!

Okay, So You Found the Lingerie… Now What?

Let me ask you this: what if that lingerie wasn’t just for a drawer or one night of fun? What if it was a spark—a starting point for reconnecting with your body and reminding yourself that you are, in fact, That Bitch?

That’s where I come in. 👋🏾

I’m Nicole—a boudoir photographer serving Northern Virginia, DC, and Maryland. I create unapologetic, unretouched, real photo experiences for women who’ve spent too damn long believing they have to change before they’re worthy of being seen.

You don’t have to lose 10 pounds. You don’t have to feel 100% confident. You don’t even need to know how to pose (I’ll guide you the entire way). All you need is the tiniest bit of curiosity—and maybe a lacy little number from one of these amazing boutiques.

If you’re ready to see what everyone else already sees in you—because they’re not lying when they say you’re beautiful—let’s make some magic.

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